Individual Guidance

Experience tailored one-on-one guidance to build greater connection with others and yourself. 

James’s highest intention is to serve you as you re-love your life, have fun doing it, share the joy, and let your light shine.

Support you can lean into

James sees everyone's journey as very special and unique. Accordingly, his guidance comes from a sacred place of deep understanding, acceptance and compassion.  

“Seeing people start to make small wins, all the way to completely turning their life around, is such a great joy.”  

If you are yearning for meaningful changes in your life, you are in good hands. James is a veteran neuro-semantics master coach and trainer. He blends this with being a Satyananda yoga teacher, leadership specialist, wilderness guide and paratrooper. His guidance is further strengthened by a truckload of lived experience.

James is patient, flexible and will help you at a pace that works well for you. This is important as Real Love is like a dance, moving back and forth along a spectrum to best meet your needs. For some, healing at the 'Loved Up' end of the spectrum is most helpful. For others, some 'Tough Love' from the other end of the spectrum may be what gets results.

These and all the myriad of places in between are available to you in an Individual Guidance session. Whether you’re a high-performer or barely making it through the day, James will meet you where you are.

The Elements and you

Individual Guidance will help you create the positive life changes you desire.

  • Need help applying your Element in a challenging life situation?

  • Want to know how to use your Higher Element when making difficult life decisions?

  • Want support completing your workbook?

  • Would like to enhance your experience of applying an Element?

  • Need help with juggling multiple Elements at the same time?

Individual Guidance will give you greater clarity on how your Element relates to your specific situation.

Individual guidance sessions help you shift the way you see life, others, and your experiences. You also have access to proprietary tools and techniques intended to remove obstacles along your journey and help you untangle challenging thoughts and beliefs.

During a typical session we will explore how you are currently practicing your Element, see what’s working well for you and what challenges you face.  

The Elements offer a unique opportunity to explore critical areas of your life you would like to improve, combined with an action plan of practical everyday ways to help you achieve this.  

It can be easy to practice an Element on a bright sunny day. However, James will guide you in how to successfully apply The Elements in any weather, to overcome life’s tricky situations.

Step into a life of Real Love

After a series of profound, spiritual life changing experiences, James developed The 10 Elements of Real Love: a robust framework, supporting an action-based spiritual pathway. This pathway is aimed at helping you to live a life filled with connection, meaning and purpose. 

James has been using the Real Love framework in his own life for many years. He has experienced The Elements’ healing and transformational power. Through experience, so comes the wisdom of how to apply Elements in tricky situations... He looks forward to helping you do the same.

James lives by The Elements to navigate his own life, how he raises his children, connects with and impacts others.

Experiencing The Elements in their full transformational power focused my life onto that which is truly important. After that, everything else became simple and paled in comparison.’
  • The results were more than I could ever have hoped for. The program was highly innovative and creative, it was loads of fun and it produced the outcome of having our entire team working together and laughing together.

    Miles S. - Former Corporate Coaching Client

  • James gets the balance between challenge and positive feedback just right. I made significant progress in improving skills and behaviours that had been impacting negatively on my professional performance for years.

    James B. - Coaching Client

  • An amazing leadership experience for my team in Africa, in particular, the coaching and team building activities. It realized all of our expectations and more. James's attention to detail was amazing.

    Creel P. - Leadership Training, Coaching and Team Building client

  • James Holden's method is less conventional...but in essence it's about the same thing: recognising that something human lies beneath.

    Fenella Souter, Sydney Morning Herald

$120

One hour online Individual Guidance session

Scholarships are available if your budget cannot extend to the prices stated below. Please email me at connect@real-love.org to discuss.